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Sam Illingworth's avatar

Thanks, Jing and Jessica. This is such a refreshing take, and great to see real examples of young people critically engaging with AI. It really bothers me when we just assume that they'll passively accept everything, whereas, in actual fact, given the right tools and support, young people are some of the most effective proponents of critical thinking with and without AI.

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Stone Shen's avatar

Such a refreshing air talking about the learning curve from the very pure mindset of our children... Few weeks ago in December a night my 13-yrs old asked a math question which is forgot over time and at that moment a conversation with ChatGPT as a follow-up within few seconds to get the exact answer of my son, and then I asked him how's his impression to today's AI and surprisingly, a teenager's replies as following was impressed: 1) No meaning to help AI to be smarter by giving up and giving in my learning opportunities through Ctrl+C & Ctrl+V, I saw those YouTube videos how teachers to be crazy on their students on those nonsense behaviors; 2) It's helpful to address my concern tonight and I know learning curve as you mentioned so the learning like a mountain climbing, it carries a lot of hard works but meaningful as well; 3) Don't worry too much about me too much and I already know many of those improper behaviors how to engage AI with nonsense, and I could decide how to engage it instead of being controlled by AI. ─ Yes, I admitted as a part of parenting, I paid a lot of attention in daily parenting with children on the youth's behaviors to engage AI, but as the parent, I didn't reflect such deep insights like my son mirroring it in depth a few weeks ago... And in American parenting, children are the mirror to their parents and this evening, I saw an image of myself from my son: 1) Children need guidelines but not limits to engage AI, and the curiosity drives the learning to the higher dimensions of reasoning, and in this process, they do need help and support but non-parenting like asian tiger mom/dad; 2) More patience as called during parenting especially when children made mistakes especially when parents carry good intents but may play a hen's role for protection, it's a fine line between how to let children be grit through mistakes [under control by following the learning curve] and how to help and support the young generations effectively in the back of them; 3) To trust children themselves is to trust parents ourselves since they are the exact mirror 🪞 of our very own, more than meets the eye 👁️ but in the heart-to-heart communications with the youth and in the valuable journey of parenting, we grow up together and in many cases, what may we learn from our children is by far enriched than what may we share to them, or at least 50/50 to learn from each other, in fact it's forever young journey for parenting especially in the era of AI, same as AI is an amplifier of humanity to reflect the adult's world in its mirror, our children are the mirror to reflect the parenting, how we rise up our children in parenting, the exact same way how we engage AI frankly, and in learning process, an infinite learning journey waiting for us in 'every'. ─ As some parenting reflections to share with this topic and a peaceful, mindful, and wonderful 2026! Best,

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